You are the only interpreter of your dreams. I encourage you to open to the possibility of a very personal interpretation. I know that is not your current sense, but would it hurt to explore?

A more classic Jungian approach would suggest perhaps the male is a form of a negative animus seeking to pester you. If that were the case, it would be difficult for you to see. I must be cautions to not overly influence YOUR interpretation.

Considering the personal approach, if your animus has a negative side, and they all do just as my anima does, it would be seen in your "male" actions and attitudes, such as assertiveness, controlling, etc.

REMEMBER, this is NOT an interpretation, just another consideration for you think on, or not.

Follow your feelings. If the above approach should apply, the positive symbol is the white pillars which go unharmed and untrhreatened. This is a subject perhaps to think further on. What comes to mind regarding the white pillars? What kind of structure could they represent? First impressions?