Your sense your Mom was busy was accurate. Describing her earthly personality as you did he’s us understand her long term calling.
It is so honest of you to mention the slight sense of loss in having to give up some amount (but not all) of your perceived exclusive relationship. There seems to be no truly exclusive love.
Also, your Mom’s busy afterlife paved the way beautifully for your new and very important relationship with your “go get ‘em Dad”.
This is a wonderful story! It makes so much sense.
Thank you!